Criticism

Criticism can be constructive but not always..it can be more than sufficient to destroy a person, persistent criticism of a person without taking into account the efforts one is putting in can demoralize that person and it can break him to such an extent from where he can’t recover. Abhinav Bindra, the pride of our nation who got us our first individual Olympic Gold tells in a television interview that he was so relieved as if thousand ton of load has been taken of him but when asked about his reaction after winning the gold, there were no wild celebrations as other sports persons generally do, he says that it’s the nature of his sport and it demands to be calm and composed..point taken but for him as well it hasn’t come in a day..last Olympics he finished seventh..may be he knows the agony of failing so he keeps it simple when it comes to celebrations... he comes from a very good background so no financial crisis there but there are many who don’t get this liberty…what about those they fail and they are out nobody cares…its not just about sport, in every other walk of life.. we need to be self motivators but it doesn’t work everytime..it just doesn’t…it breaks you into pieces and thus very hard to regather…..

Cook Chicken my way...

Cooking has always been my favorite past time and i try fusion @ times this is a fusion of mom made chicken and chinese....
First wash the chicken..then take 5-6 red chillies,ginger,garlic(2 whole),tumeric(2 teaspoons) onions chopped(3),cardamom(2)cloves(2) can't be sure of the quantity of these ingredients as it was a spontaneous attempt...then add a lil bit of salt and grind all these,then keep this mixture aside..now just get back to the chicken...take the chicken and mix a bit of green chilly paste,soya sauce and 2 cups of cornflour a few drops of water and mix well...then deep fry these chickens and keep aside, Now coming to the gravy part...take a pan and heatthe oil,add some onion slices,tomato cubes(only a few) and now add the grinded paste and cook it for around 5 mins...now add the fried chicken and mix well...now add 2 cups of coconut milk and cook it well for around 10 mins
garnish with fresh coariander leaves and serve hot....people might find this recipe a bit spicy but i like it spicy...so this is cooking my style, many will find the chicken unusual but thats my way......

Children of heaven

One of the most beautiful movies i've watched..i can still watch it infinite times...this is what you call a movie with soul...brilliant acting, awesome direction..

Ekti kobita....

amar fav kobita....

Jibono moroner simana chharaye

Bondhu hey amar royecho daraye

Hey moro hridoyer bijono aakashey

Tomaro mohashob alo-tey dhaka se

Gombhiro ki akashey timiro pulokey

Taharo paaney chaai du bahu baraye

Nirobo nishitobo chorono nichayey

Adharo ke shudha diyechey michhayey

Aji e kon gaan likhilo plaabiya

Tomaro bina hotey asilo namiya

Bhubono miley jay, surero rononey

Ganero bedonaay jay je haraye

- Rabindranath Tagore

etai bhalobasha.... :)